Finally, check out this article in the Ask Carole feature of The Guardian where Carole responds to a reader whose girlfriend can only seem to orgasm why tied up. It discusses how orgasm works and why BDSM provides the intensity some people require. This question can be viewed in two ways. The first is a question about why people would be interested in BDSM in general. Mental Instability?
BDSM article? Shouldn't this article be restricted to BDSM as well? I don't think that the current mere acknowledgement of it existing in a non-BDSM context is really all that tangential. I doubt it[ edit ] The article states: "When female subservience occurs as a consequence of a social system in which males, either as fathers or husbands, hold legal or de facto authority and power over related women, children, and household property, the arrangement is generally known as patriarchy. Because when a women is only occasionally sexually subservient, to ease the female barriers to love making, in an otherwise equal relationship, it is just not the same a patriarchy.